Relationship

January 19, 2022

When we compare…

The summit had ended. My co-facilitators and I were saying goodbye, waiting for our youth leaders to drop off the Zoom meeting. Several stayed on. One […]
January 8, 2020

The Substance of Friendship

When folks start looking for witches and wizards causing trauma, enemies of progress, or frienemies; I say, take your racket elsewhere. I’ve got people who’ve got […]
December 7, 2019

Managing conflict in close quarters

“Who put this here? I thought you’d have learnt to clean up after yourself by now.” Though not directed at anyone in particular, these are ‘fighting […]
November 21, 2019

She filled the tank

Usually, I fill the tank on the way back home from church on Sundays. But Yaya took the car to work. As I passed the gas […]
August 21, 2019

My First Book

Walking with Mom this evening, we came across a bird’s nest. It had fallen off a tree and laid half broken on the sidewalk. Constructed with […]
August 2, 2019

The Bridge

Glancing at her nurse’s aid, the octogenarian clucked her tongue in disapproval, ‘That’s what she does all day. Head bowed as in prayer, eyes glued to […]
June 13, 2019

In the Interim

Between this world and the next, is the interim.
November 23, 2018

American Dreams

Prologue “What would you do when you first cast your eyes on your beloved?” Bisi folded a matching set of ankra clothes still creased from the […]
July 3, 2018

Dear Imported Beau, I am an American Nigerian

I am an American Nigerian. Do not confuse this with a Nigerian American who is first a Nigerian then an American.  After 25 years in the […]
April 12, 2018

Did Killmonger have to die? Revisiting the Rift between Africans and African-Americans

Wakanda for all its futuristic, optimistic, and euphoric portrayal of an African vista, dropped the ball on the relationship between Africans and African Americans. Killmonger, the […]
February 25, 2018

Out of the mouth of babes…

“Are you okay, Toni?” Ms. Harris asked crouching by the desk of a small figure slumped in this chair, his head bowed.  It was a typical […]
August 30, 2017

Monday Baby

My husband became overly attentive in my third trimester. “Put your feet up,” he’d say. Taking the groceries out of my hands, he’d counsel, “don’t carry […]
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